How to handle the “I have a boyfriend” moment

Don't you just hate that moment?

You're just starting to flirt with
this hot girl you've just met in the
street and things are going great…
when she says those words:

"I have a boyfriend"

What do most guys do?
They get embarrassed. Apologise. Start to lose
confidence. And probably shuffle off feeling like
they've harassed a girl who didn't want to talk to them.

That's why most guys don't get anywhere with women.

Before I show you how to turn that moment into an
amazing opportunity to disarm her defences and break
the ice with one smooth move…here's a quick personal
story that will give you the key to how to deal with this
in the right way:

You probably know that I started out as an actor which
taught me a lot of cool things on the way.

But what you didn't know is that I also did something
called "Improv Comedy"….which is a lot like "Whose
Line Is It Anyway"…which you may have heard about.

If you haven't…

...It's a TV program where comedians improvise with
each other, creating a story through pure improvisation.

It can be very, very funny. But here's what's important for you:

With Improv Comedy there was ONE magic rule that made it possible 
for a number of actors to create a completely new story
together without even knowing how it would end….

The magic rule was: Never say "NO".

In other words…always ACCEPT what the other actor
had established as the reality.

So as an example: If the other actor said:
"Wow…this sure is a beautiful sunset" I HAD to accept
that as reality and ADD to it.

For example I could have said: "You're right…
and the ocean is so quiet, isn't it?"

I couldn't have said: "But we're inside" or "But
we're in the cellar". That would have killed the story
and thrown the other actor off and confused everyone.

And made me look like an idiot. See what I mean?

So I had to learn to ACCEPT ANYTHING that the other actors 
imagined and created in their minds and build on it.

It's a bit like saying "YES" internally to everything.

Accepting what's happening and being said and
BUILDING ON IT. Or playing with it.

When I GOT this…I started to feel this amazing
freedom. I noticed how I was happy to go with ANYTHING
and build on it which made me open up and start
to feel great about each and every moment.

I realised that applying the same principle
in life and in interactions with people and women
was pure gold!

So how does this apply to the "I've got a boyfriend"
situation?

When a girl says: "Oh.. I've got a boyfriend" I might
say: "Awesome. Me Too. What's yours called?" or
"Wow..really? Is he hot?" or "Well done. I am so pleased
for you." or "Wow. So relieved. I was worried about
leading you on… What's his name?"

Do you see what's different?

I accept what she says and BUILD ON IT.

When you learn how to do this you'll never
be fazed by anything. And you'll never LOOK fazed by
anything either. Pretty cool, don't you think?

See the truth is…she may have a boyfriend.
She may not have a boyfriend. Women often say
"I have a boyfriend" as a first resort when they get 
approached and they're not sure yet whether they want to
give their number to you.

Some women also want to see how you react.
It can also be a test. Weed out the weak so to speak.
Others are worried about leading you on. Often it
can also mean that you're coming across as a little
needy.

How you REACT is key. Do this right and you're in.
Do this like most guys…and you're out.

Listen..the principle of accepting what's happening,
saying "YES" to it and building on it is HUGE.

Get this…and you'll look confident and happy
without even making an effort.

Thanks for being a subscriber,
Stephan

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