Today I want to tell you about something simple that you can use next time you talk to a girl you like. It will help you become more attractive when you communicate with women. I explain this fully in my Pimp Your Lingo Conversation Skills Program... ...but I am going to give you the outline today. Most men just try to get through a conversation with a woman they like trying not to look stupid. Because they don't know what they want from a conversation they end up being passive and just fall back to not wanting to piss her off. All they're trying to do is maintain the status quo. Playing it safe. That is not exciting. It's passive. conventional. unattractive. I call that a "passive communication mindset". instead do this: have an active goal for the interaction that excites you. Simple stuff. Nothing complicated. But something that gets your juices flowing. For example: Having the most fun you ever had. Entertaining yourself. Make the boredom go away. Make her laugh 3 times. Anything that makes YOU feel excited about achieving it. And have fun in the process. Get it? That makes you an exciting guy to talk to. I call that an "active communication mindset". It also makes you charismatic. It makes you want to have an impact on someone because you want them to do something. To learn how to actually achieve being in an active communication mindset regularly when you're around women you like please check out my Pimp Your Lingo program here
Let me know what you think, Stephan
Tags: conversations skills for men, how to talk to a girl, how to talk to a woman, how to talk to girls, how to talk to women
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Seb
171 days ago
smart stuff. it’s true I guess but I never thought of this before. cool.
Jasin
171 days ago
I like your articles, but for some reason your articles put images of the perfect women in my head and i am not complaining or anything to be honest with you my friend. The thing is that those situations rarely come and when they don’t get very far. That just might be me but i have tried adjusting to those situations where i play the ” jerk “, i watch what i say because i know what want out of as a response from her. I am no player or professional with talking to women. Actually i sucked talking to women like a lot of other guys and you my friend show me that it is not entirely my fault and its not wrong to be a bit of a ass or a jerk, sometimes playing that role is a lot of fun, but anyways getting of topic. I would like you to show us a lil example of a women opposite of that women that plays along and likes you because she is enjoying the time and entertainment. Like for example when a women doesn’t give you much to work with and even when your trying to get something out of her, she is playing hard to get and she isnt falling for the lil tricks and she doesn’t think you are being a jerk or ass because she has been trough that already but she sees you kinda boring her. what would you do and can ” we ” your fans do in those situations where she is playing hard to get.
Sincerely your friend jasin
John
162 days ago
Hey, you’re the goto eepxrt. Thanks for sharing.